Gratitude is important.
Admittedly, I haven't always been the best (or the most timely) in expressing my gratitude, but I'm working on it. A few weeks ago, stemming from an exercise in The Artist's Way, I sent thank you notes to two academics—an administrator and a professor—who shaped my personhood and my career. These two were always patient, kind, and gracious. They remained confident in me, even when I forgot to do my homework or fell short on an exam performance. A decade later, their faith in me serves as a strong reminder of the power of having people root for you, and the importance of rooting for others, too.
Both have written me back, and the dialogue continues. I received a message from the professor right before a major professional milestone this morning, and, without a doubt, his email was a lucky charm. It feels so great to recognize these positive people, and it feels even greater knowing my work with students makes them feel proud and valued.
So, here's a challenge: take this week to send two cards (handwritten!) to two teachers, professors, or academic advisors who have influenced you in some way. Whether you've spoken recently or lost touch years ago, your sentiments and gratitude will serve as a welcome boost for all.